Seeing life through the eyes of your children can be a beautiful and refreshing perspective in many ways. Perhaps we can learn a thing or two from them.
- Enjoy the simple things. Whether it is a walk outside to look at trees or collect sticks, there truly is joy to be found in even the most mundane aspects of life.
- And on the flip side of that coin, there is raw emotion, sadness and disappointment to be felt, too. And that is equally okay. Kids are great at getting their feelings out – adults, not as much. I’m learning to feel what I need to feel in the present.
- Persistence. Babies and children are the epitome of persistence. If only adults tried and kept trying as children do. Whether it’s my son’s walking, falling and doing it again and again until he has it down or my daughter showing me she can get that door open if I only let her try – it is really a lesson to be learned for us adults. Oh, to have that kind of perseverance and stamina. It makes me want to try harder.
- A zest for learning. My daughter’s constant question asking is her way of figuring the world out and how it works. I wish I had such a hunger for learning anything and everything like that kid!
- Be an individual – and don’t care what other people think. My daughter’s outfits are a prime example. She wants to express herself creatively and I love her for that.
- We all need a break to recharge. Children almost always need to take a rest, whether it’s a nap or some downtime, in order to refuel. Us adults are guilty of not taking breaks seriously. We can all use them or we will surely burn out.
- The sweet gesture of holding a friend’s hand or giving a hug is natural and loving – I feel like it isn’t as easy for me to do this, but children don’t overthink it when showing affection…they just do it.
I’m grateful for the lessons I’ve learned from my little ones in just a few short years. We teach them and they teach us right back.